Domestic Violence attorneys by state.

How do I get a protection order?

You can request an emergency (temporary) protection order from your local court, often the same day. You'll need to describe the abuse in a sworn statement. The court can grant temporary protection without the abuser present, then schedule a hearing (typically within 1-2 weeks) where both sides can be heard for a longer-term order. An attorney can help you prepare your petition and represent you at the hearing.

What does a protection order cover?

Protection orders can prohibit the abuser from contacting you, coming near your home, school, or workplace, and possessing firearms. They can also grant temporary custody of children, require the abuser to leave a shared home, and order other specific protections based on your situation. Violating a protection order is a criminal offense.

Will I lose custody if I leave with my children?

Leaving an abusive situation with your children is generally viewed favorably by courts, especially if you can document the abuse. Courts prioritize children's safety. However, it's important to take legal steps quickly — filing for temporary custody or a protection order that includes custody provisions. An attorney can help you plan a safe departure that protects your parental rights.

I'm an immigrant and my spouse is my sponsor. Can I still get help?

Yes. The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) allows abuse survivors to self-petition for immigration status without their abuser's knowledge or cooperation. U-visas are available for crime victims who cooperate with law enforcement. These protections exist specifically so abusers cannot use immigration status as a tool of control. An immigration attorney experienced in domestic violence cases can help.

What if I can't afford a lawyer?

Many domestic violence legal services are free. Legal aid organizations, law school clinics, and domestic violence advocacy organizations provide free legal representation to survivors. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233) can connect you with local resources. Courts also have victim advocates who can help with protection order filings.

Can I get help if the abuse is emotional or financial, not physical?

Yes. Many states' protection order laws cover emotional abuse, threats, stalking, harassment, and coercive control — not just physical violence. Financial abuse (controlling access to money, running up debt in your name, preventing you from working) is increasingly recognized by courts. An attorney can evaluate whether your situation qualifies for legal protection under your state's laws.

What should I do to prepare to leave safely?

Safety planning is critical. Gather important documents (ID, birth certificates, financial records, evidence of abuse), set aside emergency funds if possible, identify a safe place to go, and save evidence of abuse securely (screenshots, photos, medical records). A domestic violence advocate or attorney can help you create a detailed safety plan. If you're in immediate danger, call 911.

Can a protection order actually keep me safe?

Protection orders are an important legal tool — they create legal consequences for contact or proximity, allow immediate police enforcement, and establish a record of the abuse. However, they're not physical barriers. A comprehensive safety plan that includes a protection order along with other measures (safe housing, safety planning, support services) provides the best protection.